Since they’re already a married couple, they have a formed relationship and flow. They have a routine. Learn how to adapt to it. Of course, it’ll change a bit now that you’re in the relationship, but be open-minded and patient. And if they refuse to change the things that you’re not okay with, walk away. Don’t force yourself to endure a situation just to be accepted by the couple sex webcams.
Yeah, that’s not going to end well. Unless you all agree that you could see one person without the other, don’t do it. Solo hang-out sessions can bring up issues, especially if this isn’t a structure you all agreed to. And if you only consider the relationship because you’re interested in just one of them, it definitely won’t end well.
You should always check in with the couple and see how things are going. Maybe someone has a new boundary or wants to try something new. Make sure everyone’s needs are being met, including your needs. You’re in the relationship, but fights between them, as a couple, are their own fights. Do not get dragged into their conflict. It’s the same as being in a friend group. You can love both of them, acknowledge their flaws and mistakes, and give them advice without taking sides.
Yes, you’re dating a married couple, but that doesn’t mean you should cut off meeting other people. If you’re in a non-committed relationship with the couple, don’t stop meeting new people and potential partners. You have your own life outside of this relationship, so you should get to enjoy things on your own terms as well.